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Postby Dreamer » Tue Jun 03, 2003 12:10 am

Hmm lets see an addiction is something someone has tried and it has become out of hand and then becomes the ruling force in a persons life..(without looking it up in the dictionary that is close)

I would say that yes an addiction is always bad. An addiction would cause you to do things you would not ordinarily do to fill this need that the addiction requires. Be it drinking, drugs, food, chocolate, sex, (cough) computers..

Love... I am not sure there is an exact answer to what love is as I think it is unique as the person who is in love.. I have never had the same love with any one person. Love is something that grows with time spent together, closeness,whether like minds or opposites, love is a combination of desire, compassion, understanding, communication, passion, companionship, respect and trust.

love an addiction... no I don't think true love is an addiction. But some kinds of love can become an addiction. Such as a Battered wife, a stalker, obsession, someone who "needs" someone else to feel complete.

I love my husband. I don't "need" him to be complete.. I want to spend my life with him. Our lives are still unique but we compliment each others intrinsic needs.
We share our live's to make them more complete. We desire to be together. But unlike an addiction we could go on without each other if need be.. Don't want to but could. Especially if the line of trust was crossed. Love is a choice. Addiction is not.
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Postby rubydragon » Tue Jun 03, 2003 11:52 am

Your fascinating, because I think you are!
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Postby Leah06 » Mon Jun 09, 2003 10:51 pm

umm ok. Your the first to say that. :oops:
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Postby Luc » Tue Jun 10, 2003 6:22 pm

the first to say it, yes,, but the first to think it? i think not..
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Postby Leah06 » Tue Jun 10, 2003 10:30 pm

How do you know that? And i still dont understand how i am so wonderful or facinating or whatever.......... im not better than anyone else. Definitly not any other girl you know.....
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Postby rubydragon » Fri Jun 20, 2003 5:23 am

Your better than any girl I know, You are so warm and caring and loving. Most of the girls I know are nothing like that, I think you are fascinating because you.....just are I think you are great!! :oops: :oops:
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Postby Leah06 » Fri Jun 20, 2003 9:50 am

i all i can do know is :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
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Postby rubydragon » Fri Jun 20, 2003 9:54 am

I have no comment to that
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Postby Leah06 » Wed Jun 01, 2005 12:30 am

so any changing thoughts or new opinions? (im trying to get you all to be active again!)
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Postby silent witness » Fri Jun 24, 2005 11:34 pm

I soooo totally believe in TRUE LOVE--I believe that there is that one special someone for each of us only I think is hooked up w/ someone else at the moment
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